Using Words Like “Right” and “Yeah” During Conversations – Is it Appropriate?
Hi everyone,
I work in finance and often find myself networking with Managing Directors and group heads. During our phone chats, I have a habit of saying things like “right” while they are speaking, to show that I am still engaged in the conversation. However, I am starting to wonder if this may come off as inappropriate or rude, especially depending on the authority of the person I am speaking with.
I would love to hear your thoughts on this. Do you think using filler words like “right” and “yeah” during conversations is inappropriate? Are there other ways I can show that I am still listening without using these words?
Thank you for your input!
One response
Using words like “right” and “yeah” while someone else is talking during coffee chats may come across as interrupting or not fully listening to the speaker. While your intention may be to show engagement and encourage the speaker to continue, it can be perceived as impolite or disrespectful, especially when speaking with higher-level professionals like MDs or group heads.
Instead of using verbal cues like “right” or “yeah” while someone else is speaking, you can show active listening by nodding, maintaining eye contact, and providing verbal responses or feedback once the speaker has finished talking. This allows the speaker to express their thoughts without feeling interrupted and shows that you are fully engaged and attentive to what they are saying.
Additionally, if you feel the need to interject or show your engagement during a conversation, you can wait for a natural pause in the speaker’s dialogue and then provide your input or ask clarifying questions. This demonstrates that you respect the speaker’s thoughts and are actively participating in the conversation without disrupting their flow of communication.
Overall, it’s essential to be mindful of your communication style during coffee chats, especially when interacting with higher-level professionals. By practicing active listening and finding alternative ways to engage in the conversation, you can ensure that your interactions are respectful and effective.