Sometimes you’re just an unqualified therapist who knows Excel – the emotional side of selling

Understanding the Emotional Complexity of Pricing in Sales

In the world of sales, especially for small businesses, the emotional stakes can be just as crucial as the financial ones. A recent experience reinforced this idea for me, highlighting the integral role pricing plays when helping clients navigate their challenges.

Last year, I received a panicked call from a restaurant owner I had previously collaborated with. She was facing declining sales, disorganized financial records, and was even contemplating selling her business. Adding to her distress was her urgent need for credit, but her financial statements were far from presentable. During our call, I allowed her to express her frustrations, taking on an almost therapeutic role. Sometimes, in sales, you just find yourself becoming an unqualified therapist with a knack for Excel.

For her, the necessity of tidying up her financial records wasn’t merely a technical task; it carried significant emotional weight. This project represented her lifeline — it was about keeping her business afloat or facilitating its sale. High emotions were at play, and it was a crucial reminder for me that behind every transaction is a person with hopes, fears, and aspirations.

As we discussed her situation, I assessed the scope of the work — a messy volume of transactions, intertwined personal expenses, and the immediate nature of her needs. I recognized that this would not be a straightforward cleanup. My instincts told me to approach the situation delicately; I deeply valued our working relationship, as she was not just a client but a serial entrepreneur who genuinely needed assistance. While I wanted to ensure the proposal was fair, I also refrained from underselling myself and getting trapped in an overwhelming project.

I referred to my simple pricing worksheet for guidance (which I often find helpful for balancing fairness with self-worth) and crafted a proposal for $4,200. To my surprise, she accepted instantly, paying the deposit right away. She later shared that it was the first time in months she felt a sense of relief regarding her business.

This experience reaffirmed a crucial lesson: when clients feel understood regarding their pain points and needs, pricing often takes a backseat. They crave trust in someone who can alleviate their problems, especially when they possess the financial means to invest in that solution.

From past experiences, I have learned the importance of valuing the intricacies of each situation. While it’s tempting to estimate projects based solely on time, true value lies in resolving the client’s predicament and restoring their sense of control over their business. Pricing is a nuanced blend of

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