Sometimes you’re just an unqualified therapist who knows Excel – the emotional side of selling

The Emotional Landscape of Pricing in Small Business Sales

Navigating the world of sales and pricing can often feel like walking a tightrope, especially when emotions run high. A recent experience I had during a sales call last year underscored the critical importance of establishing the right pricing strategy in any business.

A familiar restaurant owner reached out to me in a state of distress. She was facing a significant decline in sales, her financial records were a chaotic mess, and she was contemplating selling her business. To add to her woes, she was in the process of applying for a line of credit but had no clear financial documentation to present to the bank. During our call, I took a step back, allowing her to voice her concerns freely—a strategy I’ve found invaluable for building trust. Sometimes, it feels as if I’m not just a consultant, but also an unlicensed therapist, simply equipped with my knowledge of Excel.

As she spoke, it became clear that updating her financial records was more than just a pragmatic task; it held emotional weight. For her, these actions would either secure her future in business or pave the way for her exit. The stakes couldn’t be higher. It’s in these moments that I am reminded that running a small business is often deeply personal.

Upon reviewing her records, it was evident that the situation was more complicated than a simple cleanup. There was a high volume of transactions mixed with personal expenses, and the urgency was palpable. I didn’t want to shock her with a steep quote, especially since she was a returning client and someone I genuinely enjoyed working with. However, I also recognized the risk of underquoting and ending up trapped in a project that could become overwhelming.

Using a straightforward pricing worksheet that I frequently refer to for self-evaluation (which I’ll link in the comments for those interested), I crafted a proposal for $4,200. I anticipated some back-and-forth negotiation, but to my surprise, she accepted the proposal immediately, paid the deposit, and revealed that it was the first time in months she felt a sense of relief regarding her business situation.

This interaction reinforced a lesson I’ve learned repeatedly: when clients feel genuinely understood and supported, pricing becomes a secondary concern. Their primary desire is to work with someone they can trust to resolve their issues—especially if they have the financial capability to do so.

Reflecting on my past experiences, I’ve occasionally underestimated the value of such tasks. It’s tempting to assume, “this

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