Sometimes you’re just an unqualified therapist who knows Excel – the emotional side of selling

The Emotional Landscape of Pricing: Lessons from a Sales Call

Navigating the complexities of pricing in a professional setting can often feel like walking a tightrope, especially in the field of small business consulting. A recent interaction I had with a restaurant owner underscored the delicate balance between empathy and practicality, revealing how pricing can be both a numerical reflection and an emotional anchor for clients.

Late last year, I received a frantic call from a restaurant owner, a client I had worked with previously. She was in distress—sales had plummeted, her financial records were disorganized, and she was contemplating selling her business. To add to her troubles, she was attempting to secure a line of credit but lacked the clean financial records the banks required. During our phone conversation, I allowed her to vent her concerns, understanding that sometimes, the role I play is akin to that of an unqualified therapist armed with Excel skills.

For this business owner, the necessity of organizing her financial records wasn’t just a technical task; it held significant emotional weight. Her job depended on this process—not only to facilitate a potential sale but also to preserve her current livelihood. It was a stark reminder that behind every business transaction, there lies a human story filled with ups and downs.

As I analyzed her chaotic records, I recognized the urgency and the merging of personal finances with business accounts. The task ahead was daunting, and I knew it wouldn’t be a simple cleanup. I wanted to propose a fair price without overwhelming her, especially considering our established relationship and my commitment to helping her thrive. I also understood the pitfalls of underquoting a project, which could lead to frustration on both sides.

To navigate this, I turned to my reliable pricing worksheet (available from the link in the comments). After careful consideration, I submitted a proposal of $4,200. To my surprise, she accepted immediately, paying the deposit and sharing that it was the first time in months she felt some relief regarding her business challenges.

This experience reaffirmed a crucial insight I have gathered throughout my career: when clients sense that their pain points are genuinely understood, the discussion around pricing diminishes in significance. Clients seek out trustworthy partners who can resolve their challenges, especially when they are financially sound and able to invest in solutions.

Reflecting on previous experiences, I’ve learned the importance of valuing the outcome rather than merely focusing on the hours spent. It’s tempting to underestimate the time required, but unexpected hurdles often arise that can extend

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