Sometimes you’re just an unqualified therapist who knows Excel – the emotional side of selling

Title: The Emotional Intelligence Behind Pricing in Small Business Sales

In the complex world of business, especially in small enterprises, the intersection of emotional needs and financial realities often can be as critical as the numbers themselves. Recently, I encountered a poignant reminder of this dynamic during a sales call with a restaurant owner I’ve worked with in the past.

Late last year, this client reached out in a state of distress. She was grappling with declining sales, disorganized financial records, and contemplating the sale of her business—all while trying to secure a line of credit without any clear financial documentation to present to the bank. Our conversation began with her expressing her anxieties, and I realized that sometimes, aiding a client is less about presenting solutions and more about providing a compassionate ear. Think of it as playing the role of an untrained therapist who just happens to be proficient in Excel.

For her, the act of cleaning up her financial books was not merely a logistical necessity; it was intertwined with her emotional well-being. This was a pivotal moment in her career, potentially determining whether she could continue her entrepreneurial journey or needed to move on. It was a striking reminder that behind every business decision are real, personal stakes and feelings.

As I examined her financial records, it became evident that the task at hand was far from a simple fix. The disarray of transactions and overlapping personal expenditures indicated that the cleanup would take substantial time. As much as I wanted to provide her with a fair estimate, I had to balance my understanding of her urgent need for assistance with the reality that I did not want to underquote and become overwhelmed by the scope of the project.

To make sure I provided a reasonable estimate, I referred to a straightforward pricing worksheet I regularly use to assess my proposals. After careful consideration, I put together a proposal for $4,200. I anticipated a discussion about the price, but to my surprise, she signed immediately and paid the deposit. She shared that for the first time in months, she felt a sense of relief regarding her business situation.

This experience reinforced a vital truth I have come to acknowledge repeatedly: when clients perceive that you genuinely understand their challenges, the conversation around price shifts dramatically. They seek someone they can trust to navigate their troubles—especially when they have the financial means to invest in a solution.

Looking back, I realized I could have priced the job even higher based on her swift agreement. Each experience has taught me a crucial lesson: while it’s easy to estimate how many

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