Sometimes you’re just an unqualified therapist who knows Excel – the emotional side of selling

Understanding the Emotional Dynamics of Pricing in Business Consulting

Last year, I encountered a sales call that underscored the critical role of pricing in business operations. A familiar restaurant owner reached out, fraught with anxiety over declining sales, disorganized financial records, and contemplating the sale of her business. She was also in the process of applying for a line of credit, yet lacked clean financial documentation. During our conversation, I opted to let her express her concerns. This approach not only helped her feel heard but also fostered a stronger rapport between us—often, I feel less like a consultant and more like an empathetic listener with a knack for Excel.

During our discussion, it became clear that the state of her financial records was not merely a logistical issue; it carried substantial emotional weight. For her, getting her books in order was pivotal—not just for keeping her business afloat, but for determining her future options. The stakes were undeniably high. In the routine of pricing and project management, it’s easy to forget the human element involved. For entrepreneurs, especially in small businesses, their ventures are often deeply personal.

As I assessed the chaos of her financial transactions, I understood this was not going to be a straightforward cleanup. I was cautious about how I communicated my proposal, knowing she was a repeat client—a seasoned entrepreneur who genuinely needed my support. I also wanted to avoid underselling myself, which could lead to resentment later due to unforeseen complexities.

To ensure I was on point with my pricing strategy, I referred to a simple worksheet I utilize for checking my estimates (which I’ll link in the comments for those interested). I crafted a proposal for $4,200 and sent it off, anticipating some pushback. To my surprise, she accepted without hesitation, paid the deposit immediately, and expressed that it was the first time in months she felt a sense of relief about her business situation.

This experience reaffirmed a key lesson I’ve gleaned repeatedly: when clients sense that you genuinely comprehend their challenges and the solutions they need, pricing becomes a secondary concern. They desire a trusted partner to address their issues, especially when they are financially capable and not operating on a shoestring budget.

In the past, I’ve made the mistake of underpricing similar projects, only to learn the hard way that the value of my services lies not in the hours worked, but in the effective resolution of the client’s problems and the restoration of their business control. It’s essential to recognize that projects rarely unfold as planned

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