Sometimes you’re just an unqualified therapist who knows Excel – the emotional side of selling

The Emotional Dynamics of Sales: Navigating Client Relationships and Pricing Strategies

Sales is not just a transactional process; it’s a deeply human interaction that often involves more emotion than we might like to admit. I recently had a profound experience during a sales call that underscored the importance of setting the right price, especially for small business owners who often tie their identities to their ventures.

Late last year, I received an urgent phone call from a restaurant owner I had worked with in the past. She was visibly distressed—her sales were plummeting, her financial records were chaotic, and she was contemplating selling her business. On top of that, she needed to apply for a line of credit but had no clean financials to present to the bank. To ease her worries, I allowed her the space to vent her frustrations. In that moment, I realized that sometimes we play the role of an unqualified therapist, merely equipped with the analytical skills of someone who understands Excel.

For her, the situation wasn’t simply a matter of logistics; it was laden with emotional weight. Her business represented her passion and livelihood, making the stakes incredibly high. In this field, especially for those running small enterprises, business becomes profoundly personal.

As I sifted through her transaction volume and assessed the disarray of her records—along with the intertwining of personal and business finances—I understood that this was not going to be a straightforward cleanup job. My aim was to strike a balance: I wanted to present a fair price without overwhelming her, particularly because we had a positive history and I genuinely wanted to assist her in this tumultuous time. However, I was also cautious not to undervalue the work, which could lead to resentment on my part later.

Using a straightforward pricing worksheet for guidance, I crafted a proposal for $4,200 and sent it off, anticipating some negotiation. To my surprise, she signed the contract almost immediately, paid the deposit, and expressed that it was the first time in months she felt a sense of relief regarding her business troubles.

This moment reaffirmed a crucial insight I have gleaned over time: when clients perceive that you truly understand their challenges, pricing often takes a backseat to the trust and relief they feel. They seek a trustworthy partner to address their issues, particularly if they are established and able to afford your services.

Reflecting on past experiences, I’ve learned the hard way about the pitfalls of underpricing my work. It’s easy to underestimate the time

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