Kabhi aisa laga hai ki ghar walon ko zyada hi stress hota hai? (Random thoughts)
Suno, hum sab competitive exams ki taiyari kar rahe hain, aur is dauraan humari generation ne mushkil se ek zindagi jiyee hai. Jab main 10th mein tha, to mere batch ka oral khatam hone ke baad marks wapas aaye. 12th mein maine bahut mehnat se padhai ki, mock exams diye, aur phir khud dekh lo, exam hi cancel ho gaya (covid batch), toh sab kuch bekaar ho gaya.
Aur CA ka toh pura system alag hi hai, is baar mujhe zyada kehne ki zarurat nahi. Phir NEET mein leaks ka issue aaya, UPSC ke case mein logon ka kya haal hua… aur ab world ke haalaat toh aise hain ki samajh nahi aata.
Duniya dekh kar mujhe khushi hai ki main zinda hoon.
Lekin ghar mein log itna tension lete hai, samajh nahi aata. Woh choti-choti baaton par overreact karte hain, aur bina kisi wajah ke pareshan hote hain. Main yeh nahi keh raha ki masle khaas nahi hain, par thoda shaant rahe, bhai. Yeh duniya bahut harsh hai, apne kaam karo aur jo ho gaya usse chhod do. Mujhse log yeh kehate hain ki main serious nahi rehta jab cheezein serious hote hain, par main bas wahi karta hoon jo mere liye zaroori hai, aur mere expectations toh literally zero hain. Main toh bas apna kaam karta hoon, baaki sab kuch ke liye mere andar se seriousness aur tension khatam ho gaya hai.
Tension lekar kya fayda?
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Yaar, bilkul sahi kaha tune. Hamari generation ne jo kuch dekha hai, usse toh lagta hai ke tension lena sirf ek habit ban gayi hai. Competitive exams ki bhagdaud, covid ka effect, aur ab duniya ki political situation – sab kuch milke sirf anxiety ka mahol create kar raha hai.
Mujhe bhi lagta hai ke gharwalon ka tension lena samajh aata hai, lekin unhe samjhana mushkil hota hai. Woh toh apni chinta karte hain, par jaise tu keh raha hai, kuch cheezein hamesha aise hi hoti rahengi jo humare control mein nahi hain.
Jitna hum apna best dene ki koshish karte hain, uske baad kuch karna nahi hai. Apne kaam pe focus karna, phir chhod dena hi sahi approach hai. Seriously, jitna relaxed rehte hain, utna hi productivity bhi badh jaata hai. Toh tension lene ka kya fayda? Bas apna kaam karna hai aur chalo aage badho! Life mein positivity se hi boost milta hai. Keep doing you, bhai!