Is the bar getting raised?
I often find myself questioning what the future holds, and I wonder if anyone else feels this way.
Currently, I’m working in Toronto at a firm earning $50k, and it seems like the threshold for achieving a stable, middle-class life has become incredibly high. Securing a CPA feels essential, and it seems that reaching a management position at a large firm is almost a prerequisite for affording a home. That’s quite an uphill battle, and honestly, I’m not sure if I have what it takes to get there—academic success has never been my strong suit.
Meanwhile, it appears that most of my peers who graduated with me are thriving. Many are on track to obtain their CPA, which makes me think that the expectations from employers will continue to escalate.
I also worry about whether I’ll be able to raise a family or find someone who would want to marry, especially with these increasing standards.
Note: When I mention that the bar is rising, I’m referring to the threshold needed to achieve a livable household income, not the entry-level requirements, as it now takes significantly more to reach the same standard of living as before.
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I can definitely understand where you’re coming from. It’s tough to feel like the expectations keep rising, especially in an expensive city like Toronto. The pressure to achieve a certain income level to afford a comfortable lifestyle can feel overwhelming.
It’s worth noting that everyone’s journey is different. Just because your peers seem to be on a certain path doesn’t mean you won’t find your own way. Many people who don’t excel in traditional academic settings find success in other aspects of their career. There’s a lot of demand for practical skills and real-world experience, so consider what you’re passionate about and how you can leverage that into growth opportunities.
The CPA is certainly a valuable credential, but you might also explore other avenues or certifications that can enhance your skills and marketability. Networking can also play a huge role in finding better opportunities—sometimes, it’s about who you know as much as what you know.
As for family and relationships, it’s important to find someone who values you for who you are rather than what you can provide financially. Building a life with someone based on shared values, goals, and mutual support is what truly makes a partnership work.
Remember, the path to success isn’t a straight line, and many people achieve their goals later than their peers. Focus on your own growth, set attainable goals, and be open to different paths that lead to a fulfilling life. You’ve got time to figure it out, and you might surprise yourself with what you can achieve!