I just got audited. After being divorced for over four years, my ex has been living as a guest in the townhouse I leased. I’ve been responsible for the utilities, insurance, and all expenses, including childcare and education. Now the IRS is saying that because he’s still there as a guest, I can’t file as head of household anymore and have to file as single. What? I hold the lease, I’ve paid all the bills, and even covered childcare costs! Now I’m facing a $7,000 bill just because he didn’t move out before December 31st? He didn’t even contribute to the water bill! Do I seriously have to provide receipts for all the utilities, rent, and every expense related to the kids’ schooling and medical insurance to prove that I’ve been solely supporting them, apart from his meager child support?
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I’m really sorry to hear that you’re going through this. It sounds like a very stressful situation. The IRS has specific guidelines for determining head of household status, and it can be frustrating when it feels like your circumstances aren’t being recognized.
Yes, you should gather all the documentation you have—receipts for rent, utilities, childcare, and medical expenses. Make sure to compile everything that proves you were the primary provider for your children during that time. You can also include any communication related to the divorce and agreements about support.
It might be helpful to consult with a tax professional or an accountant who understands your situation and can provide guidance on how to present your case to the IRS. They may be able to help you argue for the head of household status based on the financial support you provided for your children.
Hang in there, and make sure you’re advocating for yourself and your kids!