Navigating Uncertainty: Should I Share My Career Plans with My Manager?

As my internship comes to a close, I find myself in a challenging situation regarding my future, and I could use some guidance.

Initially, I graduated with a clear path in mind: I was set to pursue my master’s degree this fall. With an acceptance letter in hand and classes lined up, I was fully prepared to embark on this next educational journey, despite the significant tuition costs associated with it.

Earlier this year, I secured an internship, which was an important step toward my career goals, especially with the understanding that I would be heading back to graduate school shortly after. However, as I’ve been navigating the unpredictable job market, I have come to realize that deferring my admission by at least a year may be the more prudent choice. The university is accommodating of my decision, but turning down a job offer that starts this September is a daunting prospect. The fear of remaining unemployed is weighing heavily on my mind.

As I approach the end of my internship, I’ve found myself caught in a web of miscommunication. I’ve been telling my colleagues and manager that I’m still committed to starting my master’s program this year, and maintaining that façade has become increasingly exhausting.

The only reason I might reconsider starting my master’s right away would be if I receive a return offer from my current internship, particularly for a role on a different team that intrigues me. Unfortunately, the likelihood of that happening seems slim, as the team in question hasn’t brought on new members in the last two years, making them quite lean.

Now, I am faced with a crucial decision: Should I open up to my manager about my changed plans regarding graduate school? Moreover, is it appropriate to inquire about potential opportunities for a return offer on the other team?

This crossroads presents a unique challenge of balancing honesty with professionalism while considering my future aspirations. What steps should I take to navigate this situation respectfully and effectively?