Navigating Career Decisions: Should You Share Your Plans with Your Manager?

As I approach the end of my internship, I find myself in a bit of a predicament regarding my educational and professional future. Having recently completed my undergraduate degree, my immediate plan was to pursue a master’s degree this fall. I had successfully secured a spot at my desired university and even registered for classes, which came with a significant tuition bill.

Earlier this year, I undertook a spring internship, fully expecting to transition back into academia shortly after. This internship, typical for students, was intended to complement my educational journey. However, the current state of the job market has prompted a change in my plans. After careful consideration, I have decided to defer my master’s program for at least a year, a choice that the university has graciously accepted. Instead, I am leaning towards entering the workforce, particularly after receiving a job offer that begins in September. The thought of declining this offer and potentially facing unemployment is daunting.

Throughout my internship, I have consistently communicated my intention to pursue my master’s degree this year, leading to a considerable amount of internal conflict as I have not been entirely truthful about my plans. The only circumstance in which I would consider following through with my master’s this fall hinges on receiving a return offer within my current internship company, specifically on a different team that piques my interest. Yet, I am hesitant, as this team has not hired anyone in the last two years, making this possibility seem unlikely.

This brings me to a crossroads: should I have an open conversation with my manager about my decision to defer graduate school? Additionally, is it worth discussing potential opportunities for a return offer on that alternative team? This could be a pivotal moment in my career, and approaching the situation with transparency could either solidify my current position or pave the way for future opportunities.

Making this decision requires careful consideration of the potential outcomes and the professional relationships I value. How should I navigate this dialogue while remaining true to my current career aspirations? Your thoughts and experiences would be greatly appreciated as I work through this challenging decision.