Navigating Career Choices: Should I Share My Plans with My Manager?

As I approach the conclusion of my internship, I find myself grappling with a significant career decision: Should I inform my manager that I have decided not to return to grad school this fall?

Let me set the stage for you.

Having recently completed my undergraduate degree, I was eager to continue my education and had enrolled in a master’s program, even signing up for classes that came with a hefty tuition bill. Everything seemed planned out—until I completed a spring internship that changed my perspective on immediate career paths.

Initially, my internship was aligned with my educational ambitions, as most internships require students to be enrolled in a degree program. However, given the current job market’s unpredictability, I am reconsidering my options. I’ve decided to defer my admission for at least a year, primarily because I have received a job offer that commences this September. Turning it down at this juncture feels risky, as the thought of being unemployed is daunting.

Throughout this process, I’ve been uncomfortable with the need to mislead those around me into thinking I would be starting my master’s program this year. This has created an internal conflict, making me question my integrity as I continue telling my peers and mentors about my plans for further education.

The only scenario in which I would consider proceeding with my master’s program would be if I were offered a position on a specific team I am interested in within my current internship. However, those chances are slim, given that they haven’t brought anyone onto the team for the last two years.

Now, I’m at a crossroads. Should I be forthright with my manager about my decision to delay graduate school? Furthermore, would it be appropriate to inquire about potential return offers on the team I’m keen on?

These choices weigh heavily on my mind, and I hope to navigate this situation thoughtfully. Such career decisions can shape our future, and I aim to approach this with clarity and integrity. What do you think? How would you handle a similar situation?