Could I potentially use my babysitting connections to find another job?
I’ve been feeling really overwhelmed lately. Life just isn’t enjoyable for me right now, and I’m at a loss for what to do. As I approach 20, nothing seems to be going as planned. I’m not sure I’ve made the best choices since graduating high school. My relationship with the school where I previously worked isn’t great, and I doubt I’ll be able to get any positive recommendations from my former coworkers.
My current position as a Behavior Technician (BT) isn’t going well—I’m just a month in with this client and have been with the company for five months. Both the parent and teachers have noticed the struggles, and while they didn’t approach me directly, it’s clear they’re concerned after the recent parent-teacher conference. The parent and the nanny from my first case have been stepping in to help me adjust, but I still feel terrible since this family chose to work with me. Thankfully, my second case is progressing much better, as it’s in-home, but overall, I can’t shake this heavy feeling.
At almost 20 and attending community college, I feel like I’ve derailed my life. I find myself crying daily and struggling with dark thoughts. I feel like I’ve burned many bridges, and although I babysit, I don’t feel prepared to handle life’s challenges. I genuinely need someone to talk to.
On a brighter note, I have $30k saved up and a solid GPA of 3.88 in community college, though I’m worried it might drop this semester. I have over 1400 LinkedIn connections, many of whom are BCBAs and fellow behavior technicians, although some are in different states. I also babysit a particular family frequently on Saturdays, and I’ve been asked by a former preschool family to start sitting for them twice a week over the summer to help their child learn to read. Plus, I’m certified as a Behavior Technician with my BCAT and have been with my current company since October.
I’m hoping to leverage my connections and find a new path forward.
One response
It sounds like you’re going through a really tough time, and I want to commend you for being open about your feelings and seeking support. Leveraging your babysitting connections could be a great way to find new job opportunities. Since you already have established relationships with families and experience in childcare, you might consider reaching out to them for potential job openings or referrals. They might know of other families looking for help or even opportunities in related fields that could utilize your skills.
Moreover, your network on LinkedIn could also be beneficial. Connecting with BCBA professionals or fellow behavior technicians might lead to mentorship or job leads in the field you’re studying. Don’t hesitate to let them know you’re looking for opportunities or guidance; many people are willing to help if they know you’re seeking it.
Remember, it’s okay to feel lost sometimes, and your feelings are valid. Make sure to reach out to supportive friends, family, or professionals who can help you navigate this challenging period. You’re not alone in this, and there’s potential for growth and new beginnings ahead. Keep pushing forward, and take things one step at a time.