I just got audited, and I’m feeling really frustrated. It’s been over four years since my divorce, and my ex has been living as a guest in the townhouse I lease. I’ve been paying all the utilities, insurance, and covering all expenses, including childcare and tuition for our kids. Now, the IRS is saying that because he’s still living in the townhouse, I can’t claim head of household status and have to file as single instead.
I hold the lease, I cover all the bills, and yet I’m supposedly on the hook for $7,000 just because he didn’t move out by December 31st? He hasn’t even contributed to the water bill! Am I really expected to gather all the receipts for rent, utilities, and childcare to prove that I’ve been taking care of everything for our kids, aside from the minimal child support he pays? This is so unfair!
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It sounds like you’re dealing with a really frustrating situation. The IRS rules around head of household status can be very strict. Since your ex didn’t officially move out by the end of the year and was considered a guest, that could be why the IRS is questioning your claim.
Yes, gathering all your receipts for rent, utilities, childcare, and any other expenses related to your kids is essential. Documentation will be key to proving that you were the one primarily responsible for their care, even if your ex was living with you during that time. You’ll want to show that you have been the primary provider for your household.
It might also be a good idea to consult with a tax professional or an attorney who specializes in tax issues. They can help you understand your options and navigate the Audit process more effectively. It’s definitely a lot to deal with, but having someone knowledgeable can help ease some of the stress. Good luck!