Sometimes you’re just an unqualified therapist who knows Excel – the emotional side of selling

The Emotional Side of Sales: Understanding Pricing and Client Relationships

Sometimes, a sales call transcends numbers and strategy; it becomes a profound exchange that reminds us of the emotional elements underlying business transactions. A late-year conversation with a restaurant owner exemplified this perfectly. In a state of distress over plummeting sales, disorganized financial records, and a potential need to sell her company, she turned to me for help.

During our call, I took a supportive role, allowing her to express her fears and concerns fully. It was a strategic choice—after all, listening is a powerful tool in building rapport. In moments like these, it’s easy to feel like an unqualified therapist, albeit one who happens to have expertise in Excel.

The urgency of her situation highlighted how vital it was to tidy up her financials—not just to provide clarity for potential buyers or the bank, but also to alleviate her emotional burden. The stakes were high; for her, this wasn’t just a business—it was a significant part of her life. This experience served as a reminder that behind every spreadsheet lies a human story, particularly in the realm of small business.

Navigating through her chaotic records, I assessed the volume of transactions and the mixing of personal expenses with business finances. It was clear that a quick fix was not in the cards. As a repeat client, I valued our business relationship and didn’t want to overwhelm her with a surprise quote. Yet, underquoting could lead to resentment as the project unfolded.

To find a balance, I pulled up my standard pricing worksheet for a quick self-check. In the end, I proposed a rate of $4,200. To my surprise, rather than negotiating, she signed the agreement immediately, expressing relief for the first time in months regarding her business.

This incident reinforced a crucial lesson I’ve learned: when clients feel that their pain points are truly understood, pricing tends to take a back seat. They desire a trustworthy partner to help navigate their challenges, particularly when they have the financial means to invest in solutions.

I’ve made the mistake of underpricing services before, thinking, “This should only take X hours.” However, the real value lies not in the time invested but in providing resolution and restoring control to the client. It’s essential to recognize that projects seldom go as planned; unexpected hurdles often arise, adding to the timeline. Those acquainted with the industry understand this all too well.

Effective pricing is a blend of analytical assessment, instinct,

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