Sometimes you’re just an unqualified therapist who knows Excel – the emotional side of selling

The Emotional Landscape of Pricing: A Case Study from the Sales Frontlines

In today’s fast-paced business environment, it’s easy to overlook the emotional undercurrents that accompany financial discussions, especially when it comes to pricing. A recent experience during a sales call reminded me of the critical role that pricing plays in the overall health of a business, particularly for small enterprises.

Late last year, a former client, a restaurant owner, reached out to me in a state of distress. Her sales figures were plummeting, her financial records were disorganized, and she was contemplating selling her business. To add to her woes, she needed to apply for a line of credit, but her financial documentation was far from clean. During our call, I took a step back and allowed her to express her concerns. This approach—not unlike that of a therapist—helped foster a sense of trust and rapport; sometimes, we just need someone to listen.

For her, the task of getting her financial records in order was more than a matter of practicality; it had profound emotional implications. The successful navigation of her business situation would determine whether she could continue operating her restaurant or would have to part ways with it. In such moments, I often remind myself that behind every financial figure is a human being with dreams and fears.

As I assessed her chaotic financial state—complete with mixed personal expenses and a significant volume of transactions—I quickly realized a simple cleanup was not in the cards. Given our history and my understanding of her predicament, I aimed to strike a balance when quoting the price for my services. I didn’t want to overwhelm her with an exorbitant fee, as she truly needed the assistance, yet I was wary of underquoting and later regretting the commitment.

I referred to my pricing worksheet, a useful tool that helps me evaluate my offers objectively. After compiling my assessment, I proposed a fee of $4,200. To my surprise, she accepted the estimate immediately and paid the deposit, explaining it was the first time in months she felt some relief regarding her business situation.

This experience underscored a vital lesson that I have learned repeatedly: when clients sense that their pain points are genuinely acknowledged and understood, pricing takes on a secondary role. What they crave most is a trustworthy partner to help them resolve their issues, especially if they are financially stable.

In my early days, I often miscalculated the time required for similar projects, thinking, “This should only take X hours.” However, I

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