Sometimes you’re just an unqualified therapist who knows Excel – the emotional side of selling

The Emotional Landscape of Pricing in Client Relationships

In the world of sales, and particularly in the realm of small businesses, pricing goes beyond numbers and spreadsheets. A recent experience reminded me just how deeply emotional this process can be, especially for our clients grappling with stress and uncertainty.

I received an urgent call from a familiar restaurant owner last year, one who had previously sought my help. She was overwhelmed — her sales were declining, her financial records were chaotic, and she was contemplating selling her business. To make matters worse, she needed to apply for a line of credit, but her financials were far from presentable. During our conversation, I took a step back to listen as she vented her frustrations. Sometimes, in our line of work, we find ourselves playing the role of unwitting therapist, armed not with a degree but with a proficiency in Excel.

For my client, the need for clean financial records was not merely a logistical issue; it was intensely personal. The outcome of this financial cleanup would determine whether she continued her journey as a business owner or transitioned to a new chapter. High stakes rarely fail to underscore the emotional weight of such decisions. It’s a reminder that behind every transaction is a human being facing very real challenges.

Upon reviewing her situation — the volume of transactions, the disorganized records, and the intertwining of personal and business expenses — it became clear that this would not be a straightforward fix. I weighed my options carefully, knowing she was a repeat client whom I genuinely enjoyed working with. While I wanted to offer her support without shocking her with a high price, I was also cautious about undervaluing the effort required, which could lead to resentment later on.

To ensure I approached this situation thoughtfully, I referred to my straightforward pricing worksheet, a tool I use to keep my valuations grounded. I drafted a proposal amounting to $4,200, fully expecting some negotiation. To my surprise, she accepted immediately, made the deposit, and expressed relief for the first time in months about her business predicament.

This experience reaffirmed a valuable lesson: When clients feel understood and reassured that their needs are being met, the price often becomes secondary. They seek out trust and expertise to solve their problems, particularly when they have the means to do so. Over the years, I’ve made mistakes by underpricing similar projects, operating under the assumption that it would take a fixed number of hours to complete. Yet the true value lies not in the hours worked but

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