Sometimes you’re just an unqualified therapist who knows Excel – the emotional side of selling

The Emotional Landscape of Sales: Why Pricing Matters More Than You Think

In the world of business, the emotional connections we forge can have as much impact as the financial decisions we make. This became abundantly clear to me in a recent sales consultation with a restaurant owner who was experiencing significant distress. Last year, she reached out in a state of panic: her sales figures had plummeted, her financial records were chaotic, and she was contemplating selling her restaurant, all while trying to secure a line of credit without having clean books to present to the bank.

When we connected over the phone, I adopted a listening approach, allowing her to express her frustrations. Building rapport is essential in these situations; sometimes, you end up feeling more like an impromptu therapist than a straightforward consultant, even if your expertise lies in data management.

For her, tidying up her financial records wasn’t simply a technical necessity; it was deeply personal. This was about her livelihood and future, with significant stakes at play. As she shared her concerns, I was reminded of how human the world of small business truly is. The figures and transactions represent lives, dreams, and sometimes, heartaches.

As I assessed her financial activity and the extent of the mess, I realized that this wouldn’t be a simple fix. I didn’t want to overwhelm her with a high estimate, as she was a repeat client and an entrepreneur I admired. Conversely, I had to ensure my quote adequately reflected the work required, avoiding the trap of undervaluing my efforts and ending up in an overwhelming project.

To find a fair price, I turned to my trusted pricing worksheet—a tool I use to validate my proposed rates. I settled on a proposal of $4,200, and much to my surprise, instead of haggling, she signed the contract immediately and paid the deposit. Her immediate relief was palpable—it was the first moment in months where she felt at ease discussing her business struggles.

This experience reaffirmed a crucial lesson I’ve learned repeatedly: when clients sense that you genuinely understand their challenges and can provide the solutions they need, pricing becomes less of a stickler point. They often prioritize trust and the desire for problem-solving over cost—particularly when they have the financial means to proceed.

Earlier in my career, I’ve made the mistake of underpricing such work. It’s easy to fall into the trap of calculating hours rather than valuing the solutions we provide. The true worth lies in alleviating the client

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