Sometimes you’re just an unqualified therapist who knows Excel – the emotional side of selling

The Emotional Dynamics of Pricing in Business Relationships

In the world of entrepreneurship, the balance between numbers and emotions can often be a delicate one. A recent sales call I had with a familiar restaurant owner highlighted this intricate interplay, illustrating why accurate pricing remains a fundamental pillar in business management.

Late last year, this owner reached out to me in a state of distress. She faced a troubling reality: dwindling sales, chaotic financial records, and the looming thought of selling her business. To complicate matters, she was attempting to secure a line of credit without any organized financial statements to present to the bank. When we connected over the phone, I took a step back, allowing her to express her concerns and frustrations. There’s a powerful rapport that can be built by simply listening—sometimes, you find yourself acting more like an unqualified therapist with spreadsheet skills than a traditional business consultant.

For her, tidying up her financial books was not just a logistical step; it was an emotional necessity. This task held the potential to either keep her in the game or facilitate a significant exit from her venture. The stakes were undeniably high, and I frequently remind myself that beyond the numbers and figures lies a person with hopes and fears.

As we dove into the state of her financial situation, I examined a myriad of factors: the transaction volume, disorganized records, and personal expenses intertwined with her business finances. It quickly became clear that this wouldn’t be a simple cleanup. While I wanted to offer her the help she desperately needed—after all, she was a valued repeat client—I also had to tread carefully to avoid underestimating the project, which could lead to unintended complications.

To align my pricing fairly with the depth of the work required, I consulted a straightforward pricing worksheet that I often use as a self-check (available for those who are interested!). I drafted a proposal of $4,200, anticipating some negotiation. To my surprise, she accepted it without hesitation and paid the deposit, revealing that this was the first moment in months that she felt a sense of ease regarding her company’s situation.

This exchange reaffirmed a principle I’ve come to understand deeply: when clients know you empathize with their challenges and genuinely grasp their needs, pricing becomes a secondary concern. They seek a reliable partner who can resolve their issues, especially when they have the resources to invest in solutions.

In the past, I’ve made the mistake of underpricing my services, assuming that tasks would require a set amount of

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