Navigating Career Decisions: Should You Share Your Plans with Your Manager?

As I approach the conclusion of my internship, I find myself in a rather challenging situation that I’d like to share, hoping it might resonate with others facing similar dilemmas.

Having recently completed my undergraduate degree, I was all set to embark on my graduate studies this fall. I not only secured admission to my chosen university but also registered for classes, fully prepared to tackle the tuition expenses that came with it.

Earlier this year, I was fortunate enough to land a spring internship, which I eagerly anticipated would lead me back to school, as internships are typically a prerequisite for grad school students. However, the current job market has prompted me to reconsider my plans. I’ve decided to defer my graduate admission for at least a year—a choice my university has graciously accepted. Instead, I’ve received an enticing job offer for a position beginning in September, and the fear of potentially declining it only to face unemployment weighs heavily on my mind.

Throughout this internship, I’ve been openly discussing my intentions to start my master’s program, a narrative that has now become uncomfortable given my change of heart. The only scenario where I might reconsider enrolling this fall is if I receive a return offer for a position within a different team at my current internship. Unfortunately, the hiring trends suggest that this opportunity is highly unlikely, as this team hasn’t brought anyone on board in the past two years.

So, here’s where I stand: should I candidly communicate my decision to defer graduate school to my manager, and seek advice on potential opportunities to transition into the other team? It’s a delicate balance of maintaining professionalism while being true to my evolving career path.

As I weigh my options, I invite you to share your thoughts or experiences. Have you faced a similar crossroads in your career? How did you approach the conversation with your manager? Let’s discuss the intricacies of navigating career decisions in our ever-changing job landscape.